One of the most misunderstood topics in intimacy: sustaining a fulfilling sexual connection in long-term relationships. With humor, compassion, and scientific rigor, Nagoski dispels myths and empowers readers to create joyful, confident, and lasting sex lives.

° Debunking Myths: Learn why the idea that sexual satisfaction fades over time is false, and discover how great sex can flourish for decades.
° Understanding Desire: Shift your focus from spontaneous desire to understanding the dynamics of responsive desire and what it means for lasting intimacy.
° Practical Tools for Connection: Gain vocabulary and tools to navigate conversations with your partner about getting in the mood and managing mismatched desires without taking it personally.
° Breaking Down Barriers: Address obstacles like stress, body image, relationship challenges, and societal expectations that hinder sexual enjoyment.
° Emotional Floorplans: Explore your and your partner's emotional "blueprint" to create the mental and emotional space necessary for intimacy.